2014年5月9日 星期五

從頭來過

長大之後常常在幻想不知道會不會哪天可以時光到留回到過去呢? 想著過去的童年那輝煌的青春和朋友之間的嘻笑 .. 種種回憶都讓人不經的揚起嘴角小笑一番。
長大後才發現人生與小時候的幻想截然不同,沒有想像中每天的冰淇淋,再也沒有更多與朋友相觸的時間,大多數的時光都分享給自己的人家和公司,有時想和朋友想聚在一塊大家卻又在四處過著自己的一片的江山並打拼著天下中,個人忙碌自己的工沒有時間同聚在一起吃頓飯聊聊天下四海之事。

幻象著如果有時光到留的機器我會想做些什麼呢? 如果我能重回到過去我會想要改變什麼呢? 那心愛的女孩也許還有機會可以挽救回來,那場沒打完的球可以打得更加精采,想看風景也能早點欣賞,好多好多的事情想要去跟改,但想了這麼多有何益處呢? 最終這場宴席總要消散,我們都只是這世間的過路客,過去的時間總是回不來,即便央求或懇求時間總是抬頭挺胸大步揚走停不下它的腳步,你求它它不離,他勸說它不與理會,你有你的理它有它的道,它總會跟你說: 你不保握當下的我現在的我已經不同了。

如果你能回到過去你想改變什麼呢?


2014年5月6日 星期二

你的潛能叫無限

人與生俱來有種特性; 學習。

觀察嬰兒他們的言行舉止就能體會到他們一直在觀察大人們的行為,不論大小他們都會一一抄寫下來在他們的心版裡,嬰兒善於觀察也善於模仿,稍微長大些就開始運用他們聰明去選擇,他們既謙卑又服從,那小小的手掌開始長大更加有力,那雙小小的腳成了有力的支柱,長大成人之後便有了自己的意識去做自己想要做的事,並且開始學習他們想學的事物。

我們都在嘗試學習某樣事物,煮飯、打球、社交技巧、唱歌.. 等等,這世界提供了我們生活上的需求並還有剩,我們利用了大自然的材料去建造美奐的建築修築了古代的遺跡和未來所需要的技術提供了必要的資源,我們都一直在向其他人學習如何成為更好、更有能力、更加有才華,學習是一個過程,過程是沒有任何替代品的,人若要成長都需要一段時間的磨練並加上精神和精力才能改變一件原有的事情,所做的一切只為了變得更加淬鍊,提供一個例子:

畫畫是我的專向,當初我決定畫畫時就打算一輩子要做這行業,我並不是一生下來就有如神話般的能力去描構出各種生動的動態,我觀察、模仿、改進,每做一次循環就更加上一層樓,花了幾年的時間還是在學習如何更精進我的繪畫才能,如今還並非完美,但我知道有天我會達到我從來沒有想到的境界,因為我知道-我被賦於的潛能是無限,我沒有一個局限,我的能力就好像天空一樣那麼廣,總碰不到邊,只要我不畫地自限我就沒有局限。同樣的只要你不畫地自限你的潛能也將成為無限。








2014年4月30日 星期三

Atonement

Last letter my mom wrought me this question: What has the Atonement helped you to become better?

In our daily life. We are restrained by many things. It includes worldly and spiritually. Our spiritual growth will be influenced by our worldly decisions. However through the Atonement we can change our destiny. We can make impossible to possible. Why then Jesus said: I have overcome the world. His mercy can turn our weaknesses to strengths. Through his atoning sacrifice we have chance to change our self. The atonement is a power to transform us into something. For example; A broken vessel. No matter how hard you try to fix you will never be able to restore to the perfect form. We as sons and daughters are not in the same cause. Christ has atoned for you and me. Each one of us can change our behaviors through his enabling power. Family can be united again. We will see our beloved one again. Death has no victory.                     


2014年4月26日 星期六

家。天堂_Family&Heaven

你相信家庭是神給你最好的學習環境嗎? 我相信的確如此,因為神愛你,他已經賜給你一個家庭使你成長和學習,然而"任何成功都不能彌補家庭的失敗"。

神制定一個家庭讓所有的靈體兒女都有機會來到世上學習,透過家庭我們學習到包容、關愛、體貼、服務、原諒 .. 等等多種美好的特質,家庭的成功在於母親和父親共同努力,耶穌曾教導: 愛人如己。你能想像家人都能彼此相愛,沒有抱怨只求他人的益處不求自己的益處的情況嗎? 若一個家庭能做到沒有爭吵只有彼此相愛,其實天堂,已經在你家裡了。

- 家可成為人間天堂

Do you believe that family has the best environment for learning? I do believe so. Because God loves you. He has provided you a family to learn and grow. However "No other success in life can compensate for failure in the home".

God ordained family to be the place where his spirit children can have the opportunity to dwell on it and trough it we may learn and grow as well. In Family we learn how to love, serve, forgive and to be kind to another.. many wonderful characteristics we could learn. The success of a family depends on the efforts both wife and husband. Jesus taught: Love one anther. Can you image a family members are loving one another, no complaining, only seeking the good for others not self's. If a family can without quarreling only loving one another. The Heaven - actually are at your house.      




2014年4月16日 星期三

Love。愛

愛不是一句簡單的話卻是一個簡單的行動,如果你不表示愛就等於不愛。

每個人在生活中都需要被理解和諒解,這世界有時又好像迷宮般人人在找尋一個出口試圖找到那深層的渴望,想要一位知己能暢談天地、痛哭一番,同享甘苦和喜樂,世界少了愛就好像一個屋裡缺了光,你怎麼樣也不會感到舒適和快樂,既然如此人又何必互相論斷呢? 任何一句汙穢的話沒有建立的效果只有摧毀一切,若是如此怎能讓污穢的言語出口呢? 論斷他人不如分享你的愛吧! 簡單的服務一句愉快的問候都能促成社會和家庭的成長,你若想要得到別人的愛你就要先付出你的愛。


Love is not a simple phase but an simple action. If you don't show love then you do not love.

Everyone in this life needs to be understood and forgiven. Sometime this earth is similar to a maze which we all are trying to find the exit for the deeper desire in our hearts. We want to have a friend who can talk with and cry together. Share each others burdens. If this world doesn't have a love; it is similar to a house which doesn't have a light. You will never be feeling comfortable and happy in that house. If that is the cause then why are we still judging others? Any filthy words can't build up anything but destroy everything. Shouldn't we stop judging others? If you want to gain the love you must show your love. A simple greeting and service can develop good relationship between in families and the society.     

2014年4月15日 星期二

Because of him

A short video shows the life of Jesus Christ. During this special occasion. We ought to think what he has down for us. May we always remember his atoning sacrifice! 

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Because of You

2014年4月9日 星期三

We sacrifice for the greater blessings.

At some point we are all looking for the higher passion or degree on this life. Or maybe even just want to have a better life for your family or individual! no matter what you are striving to become without laboring you will never meet success.

In Chinese their is a phrase: 10 min on the stage, 10 years on the back stage. The majority of the  successful man are not because they have a better condition or they have a wealth family but a hard working hands. They spend much more time for their welfare then others. Without laboring the success will never come. So what do we need to do to be a successful man? First you need to be a doer.

Doer is not a type of person just watching this world its-self to change. But rather to change this world. You must labor and spent your time for the ideal future you want to have. You can't just say: I will be skinner by the end of this month and then set there watching the TV ,eating the chips and hoping you will become a model! The condition will not change until someone changes it. Doer is not a type of person hoping people will give them everything they need but do things before anyone else. Doer is not a watcher but a worker. Doer knows the importance of sacrifice because they want to receive the greater blessings. Wisely spending time on your labor. When you become a doer, Your life will be happier then ever before.

2014年4月7日 星期一

Will ye also go away?

On one occasion Jesus taught his disciples the importance of partaking the sacrament. But they understood not the teachings of the master. Instantly many of his disciples " went back. Walked no more with him " ( John 6:66). How many of us went back and walked no more with him simply because we understand not the Gospel of Christ? After the people left Christ alone there. He turned to the twelve and said this question that I consider as a crucial question we all need to respond. said he: " Will ye also go away? "( John 6:67). The same question He is asking you. Will you also go away? I think he will want to know where is your heart? Do you love me? After we have received many blessings from him. Are we still leaving him behind and denying his atonement only because we understand not completely?  

When we really think deeply about his crucifixion. He suffered in the Garden of Gethsemane and die on the cross. In his anguish he cried out " not my will but thy be down ". said to the father. he was suffering all these totally, completely alone. The only thing he asks us to do is to turn our hearts to him. To believe him that through his atoning sacrifice we can maintain this this life and the life to come. He never never asks you to do the same thing that he had been through. My friends. Don't let him alone again. He is there always since the beginning of this world. Ask for strength. Pray for guidance. Do what he asks you to do. those who peruse in this course will gain a inner peace that Christ is the savoir of the world. And he will come again.    

2014年3月26日 星期三

A Great Attitude will change everything

樂觀的人總有一堆人喜歡跟著他,因為他會激發和崛起你的深沉潛能,樂觀的人好像一座燈塔會帶人走向正確的路帶領你脫離那狂風暴雨的海浪,悲觀的人卻像一間漆黑陰森的房間,進去了只會失了方向,找不著路口也找不找任何指示牌,沒有人願意孤單寂寞也沒人願意一輩子有在陰暗的道路上,慶幸的是我們有位偉大的老師! 他是耶穌基督。

耶穌基督的教導都是在教人歸向他並且回到天父的身邊,他曾說道: 大地各端的人阿,道我這裡來,買奶和蜜,不用金錢,也不用代價 (尼腓二書26:25)。他也曾交導我們說 : 人為​朋友​捨命,​人​的​愛心​沒有​比​這個​大​的 (約翰福音15:13 )。他的一生都在教訓人向善並到各個地方去服務他人,如果一個人能夠培養出像基督班的品格他將會是一位很成功的一位老師。因為他就是光而那光點亮所有的人,他就是那燈塔能帶你脫離險境,也能引你回到家。

People like to follow a positive teacher. friend or teacher. Because they can motivate and arose your inner potential. A positive person just like a lighthouse will lead and lighten your heart and leads you out from the horrible waves and torrential rains. Pessimist is like a dark room. When you inter into it. you will never find the direction or guideline from it. No one likes walking on a dark and isolated path of his or her whole life. fortunately we have a perfect teacher who is Jesus Christ!   

The teachings of Christ always lead out the way to return to Heavenly Father and how to love one another. once he said: Come unto me all ye ends of the earth, Buy milk and honey, without money and without price.( 2 Nephi 26:25). He is inviting " you " to come unto him that you may have peace and joy in you life. Also he taught us how to treat people"  Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends( John 15:13). He spent his whole life to teach us how to serve and love. A person can become a great teacher like he is by developing Christ like attitudes. Because he is the light of the world. Hi is like a lighthouse which lighten our path and  leads  us away from the tragedy.   

2014年3月18日 星期二

Learning Englsh

I still remember about 21 months ago. The first day I got USA. I was felling whelmed and so excited! I didn't know what is going to be but I just know everything will be FUN! I stayed in the MTC (missionary training center) for 9 weeks for learning English. well, It was a good experience and I learned a lot from there. And I also learned how to use my feed and hands to communicate with my companions! I bet they had been trying so hard to understand me.. ha ha.

After I finished my training program; It's time for me to fly! The place where I went was VA! And I will spend 2 years there to serve and share the gospel with people. For the first transfer (month) I was a bit timid to talk to people. As you know that I just got out form the MTC for learning English. I tried to talk with people on the street! but they hardly understood me. I tried and tried and tried but still they just can't understand me! It was a little bit frustrating.

Through the time past. I grown and my skill to speak English is getting better but not yet to the level I want. But for those who really want to learn and develop your talent. I have a firm testimony on this. Set a goal for yourself and ask your Heavenly Father (God) for help. He never leaves you alone just let you learn by your self. He will guide you and assist you in any aspects. He truly loves you and desires of you. You are the most treasure sons and daughters of Him. Find your talent and develop it and share your talent with others to bless your family and His children. Then you shall have great joy in your heart and as you consistently striving to devolve your talent. It will be a great tool for not only yourself but future generations.

2014年3月13日 星期四

你的故事自己寫

小的時候常常會幻想自己是一個超人能夠做出許多會令人驚訝的事情,我就好像是電影中的男主角能英雄救美並且能夠在最困難的時候化險為夷,有敵人來就以一檔百無人能擋,體格壯碩似如彪形大漢,直到時間慢慢的走過才開始理解到生活並非我所想像的那樣美好。
 
我從小就一直生活在幻想之中,長大後理解到我並沒有像超人一樣的超能力也沒有像電影明星一樣的俊美,但是! 我卻很喜歡學習不同的事物,在成長的過程當中父母並沒有給予過大的壓力逼迫身為小孩子的我們去學習,但總是給我們自由和空間去發揮我們的才能,從小喜歡畫畫的我也就開始了我個人的繪畫旅程,我並非是最用功讀書的孩子但我對繪圖的熱誠卻不曾減少,買了書.筆就開始畫了起來,能的話就在紙上畫沒紙就畫在桌上都沒有的話就畫在手心上,還記得在當兵時有段時間每天都要立正站好不能動! 這時候我的眼中的畫面就好像是一幅白紙開始畫在空中,整個場景似乎都被我改變了!


每個人都有自己想追求的夢想,學習的過程有時快樂有時痛苦,有時甚至還要受點傷才能得到,老爸常常跟我說: 不經一番寒澈苦焉得梅花撲鼻香,學會微笑能幫助你有力的完成工作和你想學習的事情,負面情緒並不會為你組織任何東西只會摧毀一切夢想和努力,老爸常說: 起步是最難的,但只要你過了那個關卡接下來的就會隨心應手了。我從學習畫畫的經驗體會到如果沒有耐心所畫出來的畫不是畫看了也不賞心悅目只會令人厭煩和煩躁,時間會精煉你的耐心,有誰一生下來就懂的走路呢? 大家都是經過努力學習才學會的,誰一開始就知道如何使用筷子呢? 從小吃到大吃多了才知道,所有的才能都是需要時間的,給自己一些耐心慢慢學習你要學的才能總有一天你會達到那"超人"的境界!

才能 = 時間 + 精力 + 專注力。



2014年1月17日 星期五

用信心學習

你有沒有曾經想過為什麼學習還要透過信心?信心到底能助我們什麼?

信心是對一件沒有看到的事情但卻永擁有希望,不曉得會發生什麼事情但知道結果一定會很好,事情的成功也在於你對這件事情的信心的程度,如果你的信心很高對於事情的結果也相對的會很樂觀你也會很努力的去達成你的目標,當一個人的信心加強時他的能力.知識.技巧.論理.理解能力和做事能力都會相對提高,為什麼呢? 舉個例子:

大家都有考試的經驗,學生也分幾多種,讀書類.懶惰類和直接放棄類,考試前我們會讀書是為了什麼? 因為這樣考試出來的結果或許會好些,但在考試之前你知道結果了嗎? 不曉得,那為什麼你要讀? 因為你"相信"這樣會幫助你考更好所以你對讀書這件事情有"信心",信心+希望會使人強大,心理和身理都會有更堅強的領悟。

2014年1月8日 星期三

夢想使人突破不可能

有天3隻青蛙再爬一座山坡,山坡下擠滿了一群青蛙並且吶喊著: 你們是辦不到的!! 放棄吧! 譏笑聲軒然豎起,第一隻青蛙聽到這些話就害羞的放棄了但其他2隻青蛙還是努力的往上爬,青蛙們繼續嘲笑那些正在往上爬的青蛙說: 為什麼你要這麼努力!? 你又辦不到! 別浪費時間了!快下來吧! 第2隻已感到精疲力盡,當他聽到那些青蛙這樣的嘲笑他時他也放棄了,此時剩下最後一隻青蛙還在努力往上爬,不論青蛙們怎樣的嘲笑和譏笑他他總是不放棄的往上爬! 最後他總算爬到了頂部並且俯瞰那些在底部的青蛙們,底部的青蛙們讚嘆的說: 你是怎麼辦到的!?什麼!?頂部的青蛙回答。青蛙們再次問道: 你是怎麼爬上去的!?怎麼辦到的!?。 什麼!??頂部的青蛙回答。最後發現原來那隻青蛙是耳聾。

生活好像那隻青蛙,當你努力朝向你的目標時總有人嘲笑並加以藐視,並大聲對你說: 你是瘋子嗎? 那根本不可能辦的到!放棄吧! 我們常常聽到別人想法或說法就放棄原本當初的夢想,記住! 你,是自己的主人! 決定權在你,別畫個框限制了你的夢想,別聽到他人的嘲笑就放棄你的夢想,追隨自己的夢想! 如果是對的方向就努力向前吧! 有人嘲笑你就一笑置之吧! 沒有任何事情能阻止你追隨你的夢想! 你,是自己人生的設計者,是這個故事的作者,既然要寫書就寫一本好書吧! 等你老了回頭看看你的日誌還可以大聲的笑著說: 哈哈! 我從來沒有放棄過這件事! 我從來沒放棄我的夢想! 現在,我已經完成了我的夢想。